An open letter to the girl who loves too quickly

You are loved no matter what.

Dear beautiful woman,

You forget that you are important the moment you start liking someone. Suddenly, your wants and needs seem to fade into the background. How could you do that to yourself every time? I don’t want to sound like I’m judging you because I’m not. I love you too much to judge. If only you knew how powerful you are just by existing, you wouldn’t let certain people treat you poorly.

I recently came across an article that emphasized the importance of holding yourself accountable. It makes it easier to demand a standard from others. The truth is, not everyone will see you as a priceless entity, and that’s okay. But for those who do, love them. Carry them as they carry you through life’s storms.

You love deeply and quickly, not because you are weak, but because you are abundant. Your heart is overflowing with love in a world that often encourages pain and suffering. Yet, despite everything, your soul chooses the stability of love. I love you even if no one tells you as often as you wish to hear it. The thoughts in your head keep growing louder, the struggle of trying to understand why you find it difficult to prioritize your own needs.

Now, you've met someone new after leaving a relationship that made you feel unsafe. This person excites you, stimulates your mind, and brings you peace when you're together but his avoidant patterns leave you anxious.

I know you are strong. You need consistent reassurance through actions and words, and that’s okay. I want to remind you that you have permission to feel your emotions while continuing your inner work.

You are beautiful, regardless of how you feel, look, or sound. If no one has told you how radiant you are when you speak about your passions, let me be the one to remind you.

Hold on to your heart like your life depends on it, and let go of the fear you carry.

Cheers to the beautiful life you live. Prepare yourself for extraordinary experiences because your ability to love deeply is not a weakness, but your greatest gift.

Love and Light

Khadijah